TOP 8 REAL TRAITS THAT YOU NEED IN LIFE
When I was growing up I never had worries, never thought of the future or put much interest in what ever regarding my life. This is quite obvious since I was a child and had nothing up my sleeves, so I just played around. As life progressed, things changed, more responsibilities, troubles,then back stabbing,mistrust and all that
Actually a lot happened and that taught me a great lesson, you always hope for the best but expecting the worst because life has a way of buffeting us with a lot of challenges, some we scale through then some we manage till we die.
I learned my lessons but in a bitter way, nevertheless I improved overtime, Knowing that life will always come up with distinct challenges,then I picked up some characters and attitudes that assisted me to scale the hurdles of life effortlessly.This applies to in my daily relationship with people around me and my society as well
Actually a lot happened and that taught me a great lesson, you always hope for the best but expecting the worst because life has a way of buffeting us with a lot of challenges, some we scale through then some we manage till we die.
I learned my lessons but in a bitter way, nevertheless I improved overtime, Knowing that life will always come up with distinct challenges,then I picked up some characters and attitudes that assisted me to scale the hurdles of life effortlessly.This applies to in my daily relationship with people around me and my society as well
SOME OF THE TRAITS
I picked up these traits and called them ACTS because to me they are more than a trait, they should be known by all and sundry
The act of DECEPTION
Do you think they really care about your wellbeing or welfare. I have come to realize that nobody really cares, only your immediate family cycle but they have limit to there display of concern. Some people ask after your wellbeing just to know whether they are better than you are, so don't feel too relaxed unveiling yourself. I witnessed this at my school annual party where we all meet to have a nice time, all we end up achieving there is gossip, lie and feel ourselves. Nothing serious but to know how better we are than others. I decided that enough is enough and started being deceptive, work in silence and let your achievement blow the trumpet.Don't always open it all up, many are out there to pull you down.
Do you think they really care about your wellbeing or welfare. I have come to realize that nobody really cares, only your immediate family cycle but they have limit to there display of concern. Some people ask after your wellbeing just to know whether they are better than you are, so don't feel too relaxed unveiling yourself. I witnessed this at my school annual party where we all meet to have a nice time, all we end up achieving there is gossip, lie and feel ourselves. Nothing serious but to know how better we are than others. I decided that enough is enough and started being deceptive, work in silence and let your achievement blow the trumpet.Don't always open it all up, many are out there to pull you down.
The act of being BLUNT
When you are being too lenient because telling people the truth or being honest with them would hurt their emotions then I must tell you, you are on a very rough pedestal.
Tell people to their face how you feel about their attitude, about their service and approach, never fell under the spell of emotional cage?Always hit the nail on the head. They will respect you for being you, this will make them to perform better next time or change in their defeciency.They will thank you for being a part of their improvement.
When you are being too lenient because telling people the truth or being honest with them would hurt their emotions then I must tell you, you are on a very rough pedestal.
Tell people to their face how you feel about their attitude, about their service and approach, never fell under the spell of emotional cage?Always hit the nail on the head. They will respect you for being you, this will make them to perform better next time or change in their defeciency.They will thank you for being a part of their improvement.
The act of telling LIES
Here you might feel that I am trying to mislead you but no I mean you should be good at telling white lies.White lies are just trifle lies you need sometimes. There are conditions or situations that require this, you implore this aspect when you want to save yourself or some one from harm, embarrassment or maybe to save the day. Nobody should miscontrue this point and start lying unnecessarily. White lies make you more mature, you can't always be plain truthful.
Here you might feel that I am trying to mislead you but no I mean you should be good at telling white lies.White lies are just trifle lies you need sometimes. There are conditions or situations that require this, you implore this aspect when you want to save yourself or some one from harm, embarrassment or maybe to save the day. Nobody should miscontrue this point and start lying unnecessarily. White lies make you more mature, you can't always be plain truthful.
The act of AUDACITY
This simply means being bold or courageous. Fight that your fear and remain strong in the heart.You might have phobia for public speaking but all those would not matter if you have the courage to face your fear, because nobody will harm you, they will rather appreciate and envy you. You can't always be shy or reclusive, grow up and face your fears, fear will only limit your potentials. you need to be courageous for courage will assist you to walk through the door that many have eschewed.
The act of AGGRESSION
Like the bible attested, that the violent takes it by force. Sometimes you don't wait for things to come at its time, you need to go out there and face life with full force. You are not in any way encouraged to get involved in dubious ways of life. You don't always need to whimper when life faces you with difficulty, you grow some nerves as well.For if you are too gentle, life will trample on you,and bleep you roughly all over. Grow that balls and take the bull by the horns.
Like the bible attested, that the violent takes it by force. Sometimes you don't wait for things to come at its time, you need to go out there and face life with full force. You are not in any way encouraged to get involved in dubious ways of life. You don't always need to whimper when life faces you with difficulty, you grow some nerves as well.For if you are too gentle, life will trample on you,and bleep you roughly all over. Grow that balls and take the bull by the horns.
Act of being FOCUSED
You can't achieve a lot in life when you don't have trajectory, just like a scalar quantity with magnitude but no direction, you will submit easily to distractions life poses at you. You can't chase your dreams as well. Open your eyes, stay focused and you are good to go, don't be a scatter brained fellow, stay oriented and work assiduously towards you.
Act of IGNORING
You have to learn how to ignore people sometimes.You don't give reply to every question or discussion people bring up. People might take it that you are cocky but that's not your business because later on you will be happy you did. Just like the bible affirmed that you should not answer a silly question because answering it will make you silly as the person that asked it, rather you give a silly response to a silly question and the person that asked it will realize that he is not as clever as he thought himself to be. When you ignore stupid comments or questions, you may have touched a cord but the person, next time will either improve or avoid asking stupid questions.
You have to learn how to ignore people sometimes.You don't give reply to every question or discussion people bring up. People might take it that you are cocky but that's not your business because later on you will be happy you did. Just like the bible affirmed that you should not answer a silly question because answering it will make you silly as the person that asked it, rather you give a silly response to a silly question and the person that asked it will realize that he is not as clever as he thought himself to be. When you ignore stupid comments or questions, you may have touched a cord but the person, next time will either improve or avoid asking stupid questions.
ACT OF MOTIVATION
YOU need to always be motivated in life, focus without MOTIVATION is like a wingless bird aiming at a particular height, just like an ostrich that wishes to fly like other birds. When you lack MOTIVATION,it is either you achieve less or nothing. Let that adrenaline keep running constantly in your meridians, keep motivated and you will always scale over the hurdles of life .
YOU need to always be motivated in life, focus without MOTIVATION is like a wingless bird aiming at a particular height, just like an ostrich that wishes to fly like other birds. When you lack MOTIVATION,it is either you achieve less or nothing. Let that adrenaline keep running constantly in your meridians, keep motivated and you will always scale over the hurdles of life .
By xsem.
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